Nursing. How can I explain the ways that nursing has affected my life and the lives of my family. I am a third generation nurse; my Grandmother, who just passed away at 94, was an LPN. My Mother, who is 74, was an AD prepared RN. I am a BS prepared RN, though I'm not working now due to health reasons. But, I have put in twenty years in the field, and understand it as a person who has done one thing their entire adult life does.
It is a calling, it is an art, it is a science, it is a job. It is all of those things. It requires you to be healthy, smart, strong, coordinated, flexible, sane, friendly, cooperative, inventive, quick, prompt and tolerant. It often asks long hours of you, difficult situations working with difficult people. You wear out physically and burn out mentally. You see a lot of inequity, pain, confusion and death. If you are lucky, you also see healing happen, see life pulled from the jaws of terminal illness or trauma, see birth and know that you helped a person mend, sleep, find comfort and learn. Some days, all those things happen. Some days you just go home with sore feet and ringing ears, wondering why you didn't become a CPA. Nursing is not glamorous, and many times it is not even well paid. You get awful things splashed on your clothes that sometimes stay like badges of organic courage. You miss meals and skip going to the bathroom. You get heartburn from snacking while you chart and from advocating for patients.
Somehow, it is worth it. Would I recommend it to a daughter of mine if I had one? I might try to dissuade her, as my Grandmother did, by offering her options such as medical school or veterinary medicine instead... but if she wanted to wear the whites, I'd stand behind her, beside her, the whole way. It may not be the prettiest thing to do, and some of the tasks you're asked to do are lowly, but it is a noble profession, and one you'll always be proud to have participated in.
For Want of a Nurse - New York Times: "The average age of registered nurses now is estimated at 47 and climbing."